OPINION: SAPA's Solidarity event provides a voice for sexual aggression survivors
A flag on display at the Solidarity event hosted by SAPA on Oct. 22.
On Oct. 22, Sexual Aggression Peer Advocates hosted its annual Solidarity event aimed at listening to and supporting survivors of sexual aggression.
This was my first time going to a Solidarity event at CMU. I was nervous. I had no idea what to expect. I didn't know whether it would be a mingle-style event or a presentation. When I walked into the room, tables were set up like a senior prom with flower centerpieces at everyone. There were desserts and coffee in the back and a stage in the front with a single microphone.
The event began with performances. There were dancers, poets, and artists showcasing their work. But, when the performances were done, the evening transitioned to a public “speak out."
Photographers were asked to cease taking photos, the lights were dimmed, a wooden bench was moved to the center of the stage and a microphone was lowered in front of it. The evening was open to anyone who wanted to share their stories.
One after another, I saw individuals take the stage. Some speakers had no plans of going up, but after seeing others brave the stage, they grew stronger and walked up one after another.
Silence filled the room in between speakers. Yet over and over, the dead quiet was broken by the next empowered survivor standing up and walking to the front to speak. It seemed to me as though the courage and strength in the room was infectious.
I saw the look of determination and hope in every speaker's face as they made that intimidating walk to the front of the room.
The amount of support and respect in the room was overwhelming to me. As each and every survivor told their story, I saw tears fall in the audience, friends holding hands in support, and the exchange of comforting looks. The level of love and support in the room brought me to tears.
One common theme among the speakers' advice: Talking about it does help. The room was filled with healing energy for survivors. Letting the stories out that may have been locked up for years was a step toward recovery for each and every one.
The audience slowly dissipated until only a few remained, at which time the hosts announced that there will be five more minutes to give any remaining individuals a chance to speak. I sat until the very end, watching every last audience member wander away, only until next semester will there be another chance to tell their story.
Solidarity is hosted by SAPA each semester. For more information about how you can participate in Solidarity please contact Abbey Blondin at blond1ar@cmich.edu
If you’re interested in SAPA, please contact sapa@cmich.edu or apply online.
